One of the first things that you want to make to your new mistress is to give her a good impression and make her want to use you more and more. Imagine yourself being tied up serving her while she is whispering to you her kinky plans for you. Preparing the meeting First thing you should do is prior to your first meeting, try to learn more of her likes by reading her blog, web or social media. That way you will get a view of what you may expect from her and also which fetishes she may like or even gifts. The second part is the image of a slave that you show. You don’t need to have a model type to please the Mistress, but at least look good and clean. The most disgusting thing a slave can be is dirty and that will probably cause a bad reaction in your mistress. Also, though there is not a dress code for slaves, try to wear clothes that you think she may find attractive. Also, many Mistresses have wish lists published on their webs. You could win a lot of points if you buy her one of those for the first meeting. In the end, slaves are here to please the mistress.

Acting

Once you are there, meeting the Mistress, and starting to know each other, the most important thing that you have to keep in mind is communication, including both verbal and non-verbal. Non-verbal communications are based on aspects such as your face gestures, your body positions, the way you look at her, and it can mean a big percentage of the slave to mistress communications, specially the very first moments of communications. This can lead to a good result to start if you show yourself in a humble and respectful way to her, looking a bit down and shy at the beginning, and ready to worship her in every way she demands. Verbal communication starts the first time with the intention of connecting each other better and will be the main part of the relationship no matter how long it lasts. We can set two different parts, the first conversation and the normal conversations during a session. The first conversation is supposed for you to know each other for the very first time, so here you have to be clear about your kinks, your limits and your fantasies, and honest about your experience. Of course, your first fantasy is to please your mistress, but there are many ways. Everything here has to be consented, and not every slave or every mistress will like everything. We all have some things we prefer to other, some kinks we love, some other we accept and some other we don’t like at all. Normal conversation during a session has to be clear and give the session a good sense of a real BDSM session. The slave will address the mistress the way she wants him to call her and will talk to her showing her respect and from a lower position, sometimes degrading himself or even humiliating him. When slave is suffering he should show himself suffering without overreacting but being real (this is a turn on for most mistresses). Also, slave should beg for mercy sometimes to make Mistress feel the joy of deciding whether to give the slave a breath or not. Also, sometimes slaves should offer themselves to do something for her mistress, once they know the things she likes, such as licking her feet or kneeling in front of her. Note that Mistress will not always like this offer, so you should pay attention to the mistress feedback. After a session, a good slave is supposed to thank the Mistress for giving him the opportunity to serve her. Also, if conversation starts about the session, it is always very good to share the highlights of what turned us on the most and her, and possible ideas for next sessions that could please both Mistress and slave. There is a term called acts of true obedience, that is valuable for most Mistresses in long term servitude, and it means that a slave should show that he really wants to serve his mistress by serving in some way in a real and practical way and not necessarily inside a BDSM session. It could be something like buying her a gift from her wish list, helping her with some house work, or even serving her as a driver or taking her out shopping. Remember, the basics of these tips are a good preparation (learning about her, getting yourself clean and tidy, and if possible buying her a gift), and communications (Non-verbal and verbal, and some later acts of true obedience)