One of the most controversial topics is BDSM. It seems taboo talking about sex, especially since I live in a Catholic Asian country. So you could imagine when I openly confide to my friends that I am into this lifestyle. There is just that awkward silence like where to begin or what questions they should ask. One vanilla friend was so shocked that he did not show himself for 2 weeks! And that’s just me. I am fairly new to this lifestyle. To be honest, I haven’t decided yet whether I am submissive or dominant. I would like to think that I am submissive. However, things point me toward being a Domme due to my strong personality and “I do not take crap from anyone” attitude. I am currently exploring my submissive side, but I would also like to give my dominant side a chance to see which one I like best. And on my research, lo and behold, something we do not have here: London Dominatrix School. This looks interesting! Of course it’s in London. I heard that the BDSM community is well established in London to name a few places. Lots of fun dungeons! Fun, at least that’s how I think of it. So I guess it’s only a matter of time when someone thinks of a school for would be Dominatrices. Plus being a London Dominatrix does have its wow-factor! So what does this school has to offer? What can be expected with this school? What are the courses taught in this school? Let’s find out.
The school is headed by Governess Elizabeth, a London Dominatrix herself, strict and stern, in fact sadistic disciplinarian. It is only expected since she was a teacher too. She loves the psychological side of BDSM, which she will also impart during her courses. The basic courses offer hands-on BDSM training with their very own model, Jonas, in their London Chambers. The courses offer training in an array of activities such as corporal punishment, rope bondage, anal play, humiliation and feminization. They also have advanced BDSM training in chastity, urethral sounding, needle play, skin stapling and suturing. Shocking for me when I saw pictures of those, but they do train for those. The training gives an insight on the practical side of BDSM and psychological theories behind it. Interesting enough? The school offers 3 basic courses Pro-Dominatrix, Bedroom Mistress, and Kinky Couples.
Pro-Dominatrix, what’s best here is that they offer business support to starting Pro-Dommes. The school will help you develop client consultation skills and marketing strategies. Governess Elizabeth has been with the media and PR for some time, so I believe she has very helpful insights. Also they will help you on creating your own website and advertising. Aside from that you will be introduced to dungeon equipment and furniture, how to use them with keeping safety and hygiene in mind. For 200 pounds per class, I guess it is a good deal IF you are serious about getting into this business.
Bedroom Mistress, this is a guided lesson for you to become a Femme Fatale. This is almost like the Pro-Dominatrix course without the business support. However, chastity is also included in this course while it is an advanced course for the Pro-Dominatrix.
Kinky Couples, this course will be tailored to suit you and your partner/s level of experience, emphasizing on safe, sane and consensual play. Same syllabus as the other courses however as I have stated, it is tailor fit to you and your partner/s level of experience. My take on this is that I believe that being honest with each other and openly experimenting and exploring your fantasies with your partner/s is an essential part of having a fun-filled kinky relationship.
I have read the testimonials on this website and I can see that this is a good way of learning the psychological aspect of BDSM. I’m sure there are also more techniques that can be learned from this school to be a London Dominatrix. However, having the proper mindset is an integral part of being a Domme. Strength of character, practical thinking and common sense are not taught in short courses. Confidence is your own state of mind. They are acquired from experience. The more accepting you are and observant, the more you will learn your way through this lifestyle. It is really up to you to know how to handle your partner/s, or which D/s set-up fits you. But the London Dominatrix School gives you the basic skills of being a Domme.