Being a London Dominatrix was never really my career goal in life. Growing up I had thought of being in the medical field like my family. Following their footsteps and earning big money and making a respectable name for myself. So it came to a surprise when I told my very close friends I was a London Dominatrix. The first question they all had was, “Do you get paid to have sex with them?” NO. As the domme it is really up to me.

 

However, I prefer not to have sex with filthy despicable low lives such as my slaves, mainly because they are filthy despicable low lives. A London Dominatrix such as I am will never be equals with her slaves. That’s just how it goes for me.

 

Am I a sadist? Actually I can be a sadistic evil wicked bitch of a witch for my slave or I can be the stern disciplinarian who needs to straighten out these little naughty boys. I can choose who I want to be depending on my slave’s needs.

 

I call my clients slaves because that’s what they are to me, my slaves. And I am their goddess, their mistress, their queen, their London Dominatrix. And they are prepared to do my bidding. They are happy when they make me happy. They are satisfied when I am satisfied. They are proud when they have pleased me. My joy is their pride and joy. That’s just how this lifestyle goes. I give them what their normal day to day lives cannot, sanity. With all the insanity going on in this lifestyle, contrary to what “normal” people perceive, it is quite peaceful being a sub or a slave. Just surrender all control to me and let me lead the way for you. It is a respite from all the everyday responsibilities and duties.

 

It’s not an easy road to be an established London Dominatrix. I had to build a name for myself. I started with getting to know a few people and trying to get to know their kinks. Trying new things here and there till I got a niche on what I truly wanted to be, a London Dominatrix. I felt entitled as a woman to put wayward men in their proper place, beneath my feet. I felt it my obligation to remind men who the real dominant is. It is my solemn duty to sink in their minds that they are worthless scums compared to a London Dominatrix like me. And I have to constantly let my creative juices flowing. Keep the ideas coming to effectively discipline my naughty little boys and turn them into my good slaves.

 

As a London Dominatrix, I do not only discipline these naughty little men, I also make their fantasies into realities. I play with their fantasies of being a sissy for a dominant woman or a little school boy who needs to be straightened out by the head mistress. I create scenarios for them that help them forget, even just for a moment, their mundane everyday lives. I give them respite from their daily routine. I give them time to breathe, to let their true selves out. I let them live their wildest dreams even only for a while. And I love thinking of creative scenes for my slaves, to play with them and to use them as I wish. In turn my slaves pay tribute to me by giving generous gifts, tokens. This is a way of showing reverence to their goddess. To my slaves I am the queen that they bow to. I am the goddess they worship. I am their London Dominatrix that controls them.

 

The Mistress-slave relationship is not instant. I meet first with my would-be slave. It’s like a job interview, I ask them questions; what they like, what they don’t like, what they expect, why they want to be MY slave, the usual 101 questions. This one-on-one interview is beneficial for both me and the slave. It helps us to see the dynamic, if there’s a connection between us. I am not just a mistress for hire. I want to keep my slaves and make a mark on their lives and for them to have a purpose for me. And I have to make sure I am what they are looking for and they are what I want in a slave. I have to set the proper expectations. Most of the men I meet who wants me as their London Dominatrix always expect they can fuck me. No. This is why I lay it all out on the table right away. A slave is a slave. A slave is unworthy to have sex with a London Dominatrix like me. If that’s what you want then get out of my sight. Simple. I like to keep things simple. And if I feel you are not the slave for me, I will not push it.