I assumed that showing gratitude as well as conveying your gratitude for the one you serve would be fitting. Yeah, you can always say thank you. That would definitely the fine way of expressing your gratitude. I do hope you’ll take every chance to say thanks, but if you want some more innovative ways for showing your gratefulness for your Dominant.

Feeling grateful might take different forms, and we need to use a unique presentation of appreciation each time to experience the feeling of gratitude. For illustration, this will be handled differently to thank your Dominant for granting you an orgasm whereas if they hold the power in your submissive life you should be grateful for them. Generally, orgasm appreciation is expressed immediately afterwards, while you would take some time to express your feelings.

Then I would prefer you to take a minute to come up with things that you are thankful for in your life that you might not see before you’ve been in your Dominant partnership. How important they are for your development and overall happiness? When have you shown your gratitude for such things last time? Will it be appropriate for you?

So, what are your ideas to express yourself? As long as they are your own, they can be plain or complex. Make your service truthful and complete.

The very first concept is to provide a service which you do not do normally. It isn’t supposed to be pornographic. Grant a bathe for their feet, a massage  after which you don’t even pine (analingus for me). Be their tax preparer, be a footstool, carry for the day and pick up. Doing something which would actually makes their day and fit the bill and delight them. Don’t forget to make yourself a part of it. it’s not the same thing as offering them to pay them a visit to the salon as offering a pampering day for yourself.

Do

Take a basic concept for a routine on which you’re not doing. Maybe it might be kneeling your face down to the floor when you bring their food or it would be kneeling and then submitting. Giving that touch of attention and focus to a Dominant seems to be a wonderful surprise and reveals that you value them and how you present your submission to them. In this sense, there have been a variety of things you could do. From a particular way you disrobe, to how you react in a set format to requests. Bringing strength and structure to the relationship is not up to the Dominant. Volunteering such easy steps will reassure them you would be grateful for the chance to assist them.

Create

It isn’t this idea to create it, but to set a mood. If you recognize that your Dominant will come back home from an exhausting day, a change would be just as simple as turning down the lights and maybe lighting a candle to support them to relax and shed the world outside. Make sure the house is welcoming and picked up which can bring a lot of emotions. This not only demonstrates what you worry about the possessions of the home but also makes them feel when they enter.

You may also create an appropriate environment for anything that could be scheduled. When play is on the agenda, organize your play space smoothly. When dinner is the order of the day, you can show your love for a variety of things by making dinner as if you’re in a fancy restaurant.

Rededicate

Preferably, rededication should be done if you are really willing to improve the relationship or if there has been a lapse in the relationship that you would like to try to fix. The procedure included in this can differ from easy to complex, so just let your mind build what is really going to work for you. Just putting aside time to discuss whether you want to submit and volunteer this to express on how you value the relationship and what they are doing for you. Also, you do not have to start telling people by the Dominant to establish a process or procedure into doing something. By just starting it, I’ve learned so many routines and making her to say she really likes it.

If it was in your rules but you’ve been lazy however you should really start digging in and doing them before you go into problems. Do not be fooled by their distraction You would like to serve, that is why you are doing too much in this relationship. The submission can only deepen their dominance so you can share the rededication just as it should be.

Eventually, if you do those things, remember to say thank you. Allow it for them. We are no longer accepting too much for granted. Do not let one of those things to let your relationship. Relationships are developing since we are working with them, demonstrating how much you appreciate everything they do, and you’re going to reap the rewards as well.

Make

Sure, heading to the shop and buying something for them would be very fast, but when did you make something for the last time? There is nothing for you to have specific skills or need to know. Create a card or poem, put together a  mosaic or photo album and make them a special dinner or dessert. There is more value to something handmade than a packaged piece.