Not every sub with their Domme is in a state to be sexual. Including those who are in intimate relationships in the long term don’t really get to be sexy. Too often, real life intervenes. Things that really have nothing to connect with sexual acts are often the only thing that can make you feel submissive and maintain the need to submit or serve.

From the other hand, sex is not included in all D / s relationship.

Submission for many of us is to take care of our partner, to serve them, and to do what ever they want. You can also be submissive on your normal daily life, no matter just how many miles you get separated or how creamy your life often feels. Look at some methods and ideas every day to feel much more submissive to a women.

Ask Permission. 

Submission isn’t always about simply waiting for the task to be told exactly what to do or just doing the Dominant’s tasks. In your vanilla life, if you want to feel much more submissive or be constantly reminded of your own submission, ask for permission. try to talk about this with your partner before you ask, so they actually understand, why you are asking and they can agree to it. So for almost everything, you can ask for permission.

• Ask if you can take a cup of coffee.
• Ask whether you can have your favourite dessert.
• Ask for a special treat, whether you can have a milkshake or cheeseburger.
• Ask whether you can purchase new clothes.
• Ask whether you can watch a film or a TV show.
• Ask for permission to go out together with your friends.

Some of these questions may be about things you are not allowed to do too much. Others may be allowed to make different purchases that they’re going to enjoy.  when he responds yes or no to a shirt or a dress, then it’s like he’s dressing me by himself. Also, they may say no to you, so be ready for that as well.

Do your Dominant’s everyday things

When you are already under a Dominant Submissive relationship, then you might have a set of tasks that you are expected to finish regularly, weekly, or just as needed. it’s not like always D/S relationship have only sexual aspects, but it also includes all the household chores. If anyone who needs to do more things to feel more submissive, then remember that it could be anything that even in a small way benefits your Dominant.

• Make your morning coffee.
• Set the clock before your bed time.
• For them, make food for breakfast, dinner or lunch.
• Remind them about future appointments or activities.
• Schedule their appointments –if you are in a long relationship or married, these things tend to be easy.
• When working on various projects, be their assistant.
• Serve meals for them.

Let them notice when you are reading or watching something you think they’re going to enjoy–give the link to them, find it out online, then buy the movie or book.

Such stuff don’t sound like that much, but feeling submissive doesn’t take much. It’s more about the way of thinking. Feeling submissive for many of us means caring our partner. You can do some small stuff for your domme on a daily basis may be on your plan/list.

Some doms have strict control rules. Consult with your Dominant whether it’s okay if you do such kinds of things for them. Your domme may be happily surprised and accept with no issues. They may agree, but on the other hand they have clear instructions in their mind. You’re going to serve them anyway.

Give your day-to-day life control

The degree of control that you surrender to a Dom Partner is unique to all submissive relationships. For total control, you may not be confident. Your Dominant may not be prepared for that great responsibility at times. Start slowly as you wish, so you’re not overwhelmed by either of you. And do not feel low if you’re never giving up a lot of control.

Here are some suggestions on how to give your Dominant more power in your everyday life: 

• options for wardrobes.
• Make-up, ornaments and other equipment.
• When to gp to bed.
• When to go to the fitness center.
• How often you may watch TV, YouTube or Netflix.
• Which time you should waking up.
• How much you can drink alcohol.

Note, not all dominant wishes to get this much control and also not all submissive is willing to surrender this much. Do things that really works for both. And if you can add things to this list if you think of other stuffs. I’m an excellent book reader, sometimes it’s necessary to tell me to put down my book and go to bed.

Stay safe in the submission.

In a D / s relationship with a mistress/Dominant you trust, it is one way to give up control. To take that power and use that to misuse you, it’s just another option for someone. Look for problems so you can get rid of bad instances as quickly as possible.

• Some red flags has to be watched if it comes to controlling: controlling on who you can see.
• Check what you eat as well as the quantity you consume.
• Monitor whether you are getting medical attention.
• Controlling your friends and will warn you regarding people treating you poorly, but your dominant won’t keep you away from family and friends.
• Control your finances.
• On some point, submission is meant to satisfy your dominant. While your limits should be tested from time to time, you should not really be afraid for your security.

Your relationship with D / s is anything you do with it. If some of these things appeal to you and help you think about other ways in your daily life, speak with your Domme and create a plan. Adjusting for your new chores may take a while, but it may also allow both of you to feel more satisfied in your partnership–and that’s the whole.