According to most dictionaries, BDSM is a variety of often erotic practices or roleplaying involving bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other related interpersonal dynamics. In recent times, BDSM has become more acceptable in many countries and cities across the world. One of these cities is London England and the focal point of this article will be Black London mistresses or dominatrixes.
BDSM isn’t meant for novices and without proper training and experience, it could go horribly wrong. To bring out the best type of play in a BDSM and Mistress session, let us examine seven precious tips that could help the Black London mistress and mistresses in general provide a great session.
● Get to know your clients and what they want. It is extremely important to know what the different clients want and the fetishes they like. It is one thing to know what they want and it is another thing to know how they want it. It is necessary to study and get to know their fetishes, angles and spots they love and turn them on to make the session not only great but equally memorable.
● Your dressing and fashion is very important. Many mistresses tend to overlook or fail to prioritize this aspect but fashion is highly important in BDSM sessions. Getting the right costumes, wears, lingerie and even make-up can be very appealing and make the sessions better.
● It is important to have the right equipment. Equipment to me in BDSM is a like a high quality special assistant that coupled with a good mistress would make the session memorable. It is necessary to know and have the different equipment to meet certain needs, fulfill fantasies and make different fetishes exquisite.
● Know when to draw the line between ‘erotic pain’ and ‘damaging pain’. You cannot always take pain out of BDSM, that is one of the qualities that make the practice attractive. However, it is important to know when it is getting too much. If you go too soft, he might not enjoy it and if you go too hard, you might actually hurt someone. Therefore, it is important to learn balance in BDSM.
● While you are at it, keep the line of communication open. Communication is important in whatever we do and BDSM is no exception. So, while at it communicate with your client for a better experience.
● There should be boundaries. Some clients could be very demanding, no doubt but there should be certain boundaries depending on the level of professionalism or specialty.
● In conclusion, safety should be paramount. Regardless of the fantasy or fetish, safety should be prided above all. You should have safety tools and a first aid kit if in case something goes wrong and it is advisable to have safewords or slangs your clients know to prevent injuries.