BDSM sessions are an excellent opportunity to explore and push one’s limits. You can truly find yourself while having BDSM sex and know what was always hidden from you. There is basically a Dominant and a Submissive character involved in BDSM. The dominant one is the one who will be giving orders and the submissive one will have to comply to their wishes.

Now, there can be some misunderstandings about being a submissive male or a slave. What exactly is a slave’s duty and how is a slave any different than submissive? Here, I wrote a few tips and ideas for how to be a perfect anal slave to a BDSM female Mistress based upon my personal experience.

Know Yourself:

When you have decided to become a slave to a BDSM female Mistress, there are a few things which you agree to by default. The difference between a submissive and a slave is that a submissive can negotiate. l have been a part of this for more than a couple of years and I can tell you this, when she wants a slave, she wants the whole of you. Unlike just a submissive, you should not seem to be demanding or denying her pleasures in any way. It is advised to give in to her fantasies and enjoy rather than just being a mere puppet. Know that a she may own a submissive but she possesses a slave. As a slave you are granted many perks that a submissive won’t get. You can sit on the sofa, chair, bed or other furniture, wear clothes and most importantly always kneel before your Mistress. For being the best slave she’ll ever have, just go crazy. Feel possessed by the Mistress and worship her. Pray to her like she’s your only God, your Goddess. Worship her breasts and her hair and her cunt. Worship her thighs and her eyes and divine lips. Worship her nipples, from which the fluid of life flows. Feel her kiss as if it’s honey and her touch as if it is scorching. Ask for her lust in the morning and her blessings in the evening. Worship her with everything that is within you, everything that you think is yours, devote it her.

What Your Mistress Wants? :

After you’ve learnt what is your duty, the most important thing is to understand what your Mistress wants for you. Every female dominant would have different kinks, variety of services she demands vary largely from individual to individual. I myself understand that the Mistress’ don’t only need a robot or pre programmed submissive who is just a piece of wood for her (no pun intended). They look for a more human, alive and sane person. They want you to be able to express just like a devotee has an open relationship with his deity. He is there not only to strap up and give it to her whenever she wants, a slave should be able to make confessions, give their opinion and an honest feedback. All this, of course, in a very courteous and respectful manner as if you are already blessed and grateful to be allowed to do this. Honesty is the best and biggest of any thing (excluding the penis) that you can offer your Mistress. Be nice to her. She wants a gentleman who loves to explore within himself and ask for the pain and torture while coming up with new ideas.

Be self-confident in whatever you perform or do. That goes even when you cook her meals and entertain her by means other than sex. Assist her in all the ways you can. Prepare her for the best BDSM experience. When in her dungeon, try various things like anal play, body worship, corporal punishment, foot worship, cuckolding, caning, nipple torture and more stuff with different props as she asks. The Mistress should be asked to insert a buttplug before and after the session. Give her timely strap on and vibrator training. Get sensual with her. For experiencing BDSM at a spiritual level, include bottom worship, tie and tease, immobilization and mind control.

Remember, humour is the essence. Get humorous at times, be witty and funny. Organise cuckold sessions, human furniture and Be My Lover and ask her for Forced Feminization. As far as my experience goes, female dominants like their slaves humourous and curious.

Conclusion

Understand and respect your Mistress’ requirements. Don’t be hesitant about anything and most importantly, be honest. She should not feel like doing a BDSM session with a body without a soul. Give in all you have, your mind, body and all your senses. The slave should not feel like asking ” I want you to dominate me ” but rather praying ” I want to be dominated by you