The Psychology Behind Black Mistress White Slave Dynamic

Domination is not just inflicting pain on the “bottom”. To an experienced “top”, domination can be and is not limited to inflicting pain. Domination is taking full control of the person even without the threat of physical pain. A dominant is actually a nurturing and authoritative role which gives the submissive guidance in exploring his/her darkest desires and to crave to be controlled by the dominant. A show of authority doesn’t come with just hurting someone, although most submissives expect it, but the top/dominant has to earn the respect of the bottom/sub first. As a dominant you have to earn the respect of your sub. Just like in a black mistress white slave dynamic, you have to show you can handle your slave very well. The nurturing part comes from addressing your slave’s issues, fears, concerns, deepest darkest desires and will still accept them. The dom may not agree with the sub, but still accepts them despite his/her dark side. There’s a lot of psychology involved in being a dominant. And you have to be creative in working your way to molding your sub/slave to the whore or slut that you want him/her to be.

In a black mistress white slave, there is a deeper psychology behind it. We all know that blacks were oppressed by the whites. In history blacks were

not allowed to mingle with the whites. The white man was the symbol of power, and having several black slaves was a common show of power and wealth back then. In a black mistress white slave dynamic, the black mistress has the power and the white man is the slave, contrary to historical events. The white man relinquishes his power over to the black mistress. He is stripped of his freedom and lets his black mistress have full control over him, surrendering himself to her. I think most would agree that it is not easy for a symbol of power to bow down to anyone, much more to a black mistress. But everyone needs a break from all the responsibilities of their everyday lives. The white alpha male needs a breather from his mundane life. And having a mistress to take full charge of him is a respite from all his responsibilities as the white alpha male. What better way to make things more exciting than to go against the flow and have a taboo relationship with a black mistress. It is peaceful to have someone else take the reins off your hands and simply just go with it, to give your trust to her and let her exert her will on you. For the white alpha man it is exciting to simply just dive in and let go of everything, let the black mistress take care of you in any way she sees fit, then walk out of her apartment with a kinky little secret. It is psychologically rewarding to endure her sadistic punishments. It is endearing how a black mistress will take care of you after taking all her delicious hits on your body. It is thrilling to feel her marks on your body, the bruises, the welts, the lashes, and recall how you got them.